While pet is all about giving me pleasure, it doesn’t always mean literal pleasure. I also get pleasure from learning about her, exploring her body and understanding how she reacts.
I want to literally and metaphorically spread her open and examine her. I want to understand how she responds to each little touch in each different area. I want to learn the intricate details of how the different folds of her skin feel to my fingers, mouth, and tongue. I want to know how she feels both inside and out, every bump, crevice, and hole.
The exploration is slow and methodical, trying just one thing at a time to isolate the impact it has on her. Each different part of her is potentially a button that affects her differently; and I want to put a label on each one of those buttons…
That way I can control her in exactly the way I want. Just like a young punk in a muscle car waiting at the red traffic light will push the pedal to the floor and make the engine roar in response, I want to be able to press my pets’ buttons and make her howl.
This spot will give her pleasure, getting her closer and closer, but never enough to orgasm. Now I know I can use that safely without fear of her going too far. Rub that spot, though, and it will send her over the edge. If she’s pleased me well enough I just might use it.
Rubbing that funny shaped lump inside her while simultaneously licking her outside there will make her so desperate that she loses all inhibitions, turning her into an animal that begs and begs and wants more. That’s a good one to use just before going out…
I can learn which of her pleasure spots are easily accessible so they can be used out in public, perhaps subtly in the open, or during brief moments of privacy when noone is watching. That way I can keep her on the boil until we get home, her all wanton and desperate for release.
Knowing her buttons I can make her beg, that most pleasurable of sounds to a Master. Or perhaps I just want her moans to be background ambient noise as I go about my work: I can order to her to rub one specific spot and nowhere else while I keep myself busy. Then when I want to escalate that the louder noises of her coming, I tell her where to pleasure herself.
Yes, I definitely want to take the time to learn all about my pet and her buttons. I want that control, I want to be the owner of what she feels, how, and how much. I want her pleasure to be a direct extension of me, taking the decisions and choices away from her so that she doesn’t have to think about it anymore.
That helps us meld together. That makes us more as one.